By Donna King
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April 11, 2021
Do you want to have lots of money, but you can never seem to hold onto it? When someone recently asked me what success looked like to me, it didn’t factor large amounts of money, it was more about having the time to do the things I wanted to do with my family and friends. But to do those things I would probably need money, right? But even thinking about having enough money to do those things seemed to feel wrong. I found myself avoiding anything that would increase my chances of becoming wealthy enough to achieve them. I needed to find out what was behind this reluctance to be successful when I came across Kerwin Rae, who sums it up nicely in one of his videos https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=1811129745600761 Basically in all of the story books we read as a child the evil guy was usually rich and the good guy was usually poor. We are encouraged to be kind to our neighbours, look after the less fortunate than us… but in the stories we have been reading that person is more often than not downtrodden and poor. If our values are not in alignment with what we are trying to achieve then nothing will ever line up and we will continue to carry on running around the hamster wheel. So when we try to make money we can’t see ourselves being as insanely rich as these people because they are nearly always seen as bad When it comes to seeing income opportunities that are around us, if we have a value that says having money is bad, we are less likely to see the income opportunities open to us, but if we align having money with our core values, ie family, then we will be open to more opportunities to make money through our business. When the core value is to have more time with our families we can actually link the values together and focus on those values instead of the belief that money is bad. Do you believe you deserve to have everything you have ever wanted?